The world’s biggest fear is the happiness for humanity that we have lost somewhere in the race of our respective lives to counter the competition from our competitors in every aspects. We are so busy that we don’t even have time for ourselves. We skip many important events and opportunities to walk two steps ahead of other. We forget the real joy of being with our loved ones. We make excuses or some time forcefully compel by circumstances to avoid encounter with those who really want to be with us.
Well, we all are so curious and really want to peep into the matter of others. But apart from this conversation I wanted to write here about what I feel what is happiness mean to me. Now it isn’t necessary that what I really think you too have to agree with. You can have your thoughts, views and reasons to disagree with me. Happiness defines one persona sole motive of life. How can he achieve the goal or motive? We have lots of way to reach somewhere we really want to!
Some time we become habitual of special habits or adopts in the way. We develop a habit that define our nature and state of mind; how we see things in the world? What is our approach towards things that really matter and how much we are aware of activities around us? An astute mind always moves ahead in right direction by keeping all facts in mind. He possesses the power to mend the way. He has enough skill to mold circumstances and person according to his own benefits. He desire to more and more. He will never be content whatever he got in his life. He will always wish something more which lead that person to an addiction for getting more and more. He will ruin his peace of mind and being lured by every materialistic object. His family would never be happy with him despite whatever he would have done for his family. They will always complaint. His wife would make allegation that he has no time for her and her children. He will try to explain that whatever he is doing; it’s all for them. But they will question his faith, and trust. Eventually he will be diagnosis with a sort of addiction called unhappiness. This is a very common story.
But we have other side of coin as well! I need to discuss this too. Suppose there is man as usual, like a poor man. Would he have been happy? Absolutely not!! Irrespective of happiness he would be more depressed with the thoughts about his misery and poor condition. His children will make him feel bad, even they can tease him (as expected from next generation). What I mean to say is that whichever the way man walk he will receive flak, criticism and abuse. Then how could be someone be happy??
Now tell me who is happy?? …..No one!
What are the ingredients of life that make us happy? Many person would say “Love” can make a person happy in-spite of whatever the circumstances he would be facing. For a minute I will also agree with you. But Very next moment might not.
Because if love brings with him an indescribable joy; then it also brings you a path to walk full of thorns. So it’s still a question in my mind what is happiness mean to you and what makes you happy? Love has consequences as well. The only pure and selfless love could be of a mother for her children for whom she sacrifices everything. A mother would be happy even in worst conditions; if her children are happy! So is this a purest joy?
Well, I don’t know but to an extent yes as I’ve experienced.
I would like to churn out more about it. Something must come out of it. Otherwise it would be nice practice to argue with folks. Wishing, I’ll complete this topic soon and come back with more thoughts.